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There is this girl, this type of girl that most guys don’t think exists. They meet her and she will tell them where she is coming from. She has her own life and doesn’t want it to change, or she has kids and just doesn’t have the time required to maintain a relationship, or she just isn’t looking for that right now. The men hear her but deep down they don’t believe her. They have been brought up with the stereotype of a woman and can’t believe that this type even exists. They love the novelty of it. The freedom, lack of pressure, even convenience. At some point he isn’t always the one making the calls. There are times it is her. If this happens a couple times in a row, old beliefs kick in and they panic, “Oh no.. She actually likes me a lot. This is getting serious. I can tell how she looks at me, she likes me too much. I better pull away. This is not what I was looking for.” Well guess what? They are wrong, of course! She has called a couple times in a row because why? Because women actually like good sex! They do! And they crave it sometimes. They want it. They like it. Depending how much the girl is enjoying the sex, how easily replaced it can be, they find a way to make it clear to the guy where they stand, how they feel, that he is wrong. Most don’t want any drama in their life. They have enough already which is why this type of relationship probably works for them so they make sure no matter what, everything is cool. Sometimes this relationship continues, other times it doesn’t. The man may finally meet that girl he is ready to get serious with. He will stick with it. After time, even if they are still in the relationship but needing an ego boost or out of it, this girl will get the “wink emoji” under posts. A casual “hi” text or a “like” on facebook. I like to call them Fuck Feelers. Just putting it out there to see if it comes back. They tend to go back to this girl a lot. Even though the stereotype they have in their minds is the “mistress” profile, never the “girlfriend”. They always seem to come back.